Today it costs taxpayers about $80 billion a year to keep so many people locked up. Nearly one-third of the Justice Department’s budget is spent on running federal prisons.
But the burden of these tough-on-crime laws has been felt most acutely by those locked up and their families. For Kennadi, the hardest part has been forming a relationship with someone who’s been behind bars for practically her entire life. Kendall wasn’t even born yet when his dad was incarcerated, so he has only gotten to know him inside the prison walls.
Though they tried to visit him about twice a year, that wasn’t always possible, as he was relocated seven times—once about 1,000 miles away to New Jersey. When he was there, Kennadi and Kendall didn’t see him for two years, and they had to rely on writing letters and talking on the phone. Even when they could visit their dad, their time together was often stressful, with guards keeping close watch.
Having an incarcerated parent also affected some of Kennadi’s and Kendall’s friendships at school.
“People assume that since you have a family member that is incarcerated that you may turn out like them, so they shouldn’t really waste their time with you,” Kendall says.
But with the help of their mom and support from other family members, Kendall and Kennadi always tried to stay positive. Whenever Kendall felt down, he would fall back on one thought: “the thought of [my dad] being here,” he says. “I had to tell myself that he will be home soon, and when he’s home we will bond and grow our relationship.”
Last summer, Kennadi, Kendall, and their mom traveled to Washington, D.C., along with other family members of incarcerated people, to lobby lawmakers to pass the First Step Act.