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The Life of a Child Goddess

Jim McMahon

Why is this young girl being treated like royalty? The Hindu and Buddhist people of Nepal consider her a kumari, a reincarnation of the goddess Durga. In a tradition dating back at least to the 10th century, priests select a handful of girls between ages 3 and 6; the chosen ones are believed to be able to heal the sick and predict the future. Even a glimpse of a kumari is said to bring good fortune to locals. But being a living goddess is far from easy: The girls can leave their homes only to attend festivals—and when they do go out, their feet aren’t allowed to touch the ground, so they must be carried. Their roles end once the kumaris reach puberty, and at that point, the girls often have trouble adjusting to normal life. Child rights activists have criticized the tradition, and the kumaris themselves have talked of starting a counseling group to help one another transition to their “mortal” lives when the time comes. “The connection [with former kumaris] is crucial,” says Maria Contreras Coll, a photographer who has documented the tradition. “The community really helps them to go back to their normal life.”

Goddess Rules

A kumari is allowed to speak only to family and close friends.

She can leave her home only to go to festivals.

When she goes outside, her feet can’t touch the ground.

A kumari must always wear red, the color of creative energy.

She isn’t allowed to go to school and must study at home instead.

She must hide her emotions. If she smiles at worshippers, they believe they’ll die soon after.

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