Some kids vandalized our town’s garden, which is paid for with donations. They were caught and did community service, but there’s still several thousand dollars’ worth of damage that must be repaired. Do the kids’ parents have an obligation to pay for these repairs? —R.S., California
They do. Parents are legally responsible for much that their minor children do. They also have ethical responsibilities for their children’s actions, including the financial obligation you describe. Talk to those parents. If that doesn’t work, those with legal standing to represent the garden can sue the parents. Civil litigation is one way our society resolves such disagreements. The community service assigned to the vandals is meant to deter them and others and to exemplify your community’s values. The financial restitution you seek from their parents is meant to restore the damaged garden to its original state.
—Adapted from “The Ethicist” in The New York Times Magazine